Friday, April 19, 2013

Black Light Party 101


I'm pretty much a blog slacker.  The reality of the matter is that I really don't have time to keep it up.  But after weeks of preparing for my daughter's 13th birthday black light party, I feel compelled to share what I learned.  So, this is NOT a craft blog.  It's not a party blog.  It never has been.  Never will be.  Unless you're related to me, you likely won't find any of my other posts to be remotely interesting, so I wouldn't bother looking at them : )  But if you're looking for black light party info, here we go . . .

WARNING:  I spent EONS researching for this party.  My goal here is to share what I learned for anyone who is trying to do the same thing.  This is a CRAZY long blog post.  While I have included pictures, I have mostly spent a lot of time describing what I did.  So, that means lots of reading.  But, if it's info that you want . . . you'll be glad for it.

Researching this topic online got frustrating sometimes.  I found lots of forums where people talked about what glows under black light, what they used to cover walls and what kind of black lights are good/bad.  However, they usually spoke in very general terms.  I was looking for SPECIFICS.  I will do my best to provide brand names and/or links to products where possible.  There are really cool sites out there like blacklight.com or Cool Glow that sell tons of awesome stuff.  But as I looked them over, all I could see was dollar signs.  There HAD to be a better way to do this.  Well, here it is.

An important thing to note before I get started:  In this post I use the terms "UV reactive" and "glows under blacklight" interchangeably.  Let's face it.  While "UV reactive" is more accurate, "glow" is faster to type.  Please don't confuse "glow" with "glow-in-the-dark."  There are lots of things that you can find that are glow-in-the-dark.  That means that they need to be "charged" by some sort of light, and then they will glow in any dark room.  But, they lose their charge after a few hours.  Things that are UV reactive require black light in order to glow.  However . . . glow-in-the-dark items are ALSO UV reactive.  They glow under black light endlessly, without any need of charging.  Also, glow sticks (you know, those bracelets that to crack to create a chemical reaction and they glow in the dark) look awesome under black light.  They glow really bright when they are freshly cracked, but even once they loose their normal glow, they will STILL glow under black light.  So DON'T throw away those old glow sticks.

Next, I suppose that I should explain my party space.  I was preparing a completely unfinished basement.  It is kind of "L" shaped.  We curtained off the short party of the "L" so that we had a long rectangular room that measured 49' long  x 16' wide. (We hid all of our basement junk behind the curtains).  The ceiling is not finished.  We just have open floor joists.  All walls are concrete.  Because of our set-up, we felt great freedom with our decorating.  Someday we will finish our basement.  Walls, ceiling and floors will all be covered.  So we looked at this as an opportunity to have a cool party and create a fun teen-space that we will keep until we finish the basement.

NEXT.  Stop.  Go to Amazon. Buy this.  I will talk about other preparation stuff first, but you need time for this to arrive in the mail before you start shopping. It will be your best friend when planning a black light party:

It's a black light flashlight.  I bought this exact model and it was great.  Only 4 inches long.  PERFECT for carrying in your purse.  That way you can test anything that you are considering buying BEFORE you buy it so that you KNOW it will glow under black light.  I bought TONS of stuff at Dollar Tree for super cheap.  But I never would have bothered with that if I hadn't been sure that they would glow.  TONS of stuff that you think *might* glow, doesn't glow.  There were also lots of things that surprised me and looked awesome under black light.  You will never know if you don't have a flashlight.  (Or you will spend a LOT of time returning things.)  Trust me.  Buy it.  You won't regret it.

PREPARATION:

WALLS
We painted our big, huge wall black.  We used Color Place interior flat paint from Walmart. $11.99/gallon. I went to the guy and told him that I want "dirt cheap black flat paint" and that's exactly what I got.  But, it was PERFECT.  We used 2 gallons for our huge wall.  I'm very glad that we used flat paint because it doesn't show all of the imperfections in the wall.  Also, it was VERY low odor.  I expected to be smelling paint for days.  After all, we were working in a basement with very little ventilation, and we were using cheap paint.  We painted on Friday afternoon and by Saturday morning you (literally) couldn't smell any paint, at all.

A few things about painting concrete:  It sucks.  Poured concrete walls have lots of holes and seems.  Ugh.  If you have access to a paint sprayer, I highly recommend that you use it.  Lesson learned.

We left the two short walls their natural concrete color.

The other "long wall" was curtained.  (Some of it was blocking off all of our junk.  Some of it was covering bookshelves.)  For curtains we used black plastic table cloths (from the dollar store) and Command hooks.  On one end of each table cloth, we put three piece of duct tape (evenly spaced, of course).  Then we cut a tiny hole in each piece of duct tape and the holes were where the curtains hung on the hooks.  (Basically we used the duct tape as hole reinforcements to reinforce the cheap plastic and it worked really well.)  We used the 3M hooks because our curtains were hanging from our heating/cooling ducts.  We could have also hung them from nails in the joists, but this worked better.

BLACK LIGHTS
This was a gradual adventure for us.  We didn't want to spend a ton (and it would be VERY easy to do so - like hundreds of dollars) but, we had a big space.  Initially we thought we would just take out our regular light bulbs and put black light CFLs in their place.  We bought six of these.  (EDIT:  That link has been changed because Home Depot no longer carries the bulbs that we bought.  So, this Amazon link show the style, but we didn't use this exact brand.) The basement looked pretty awesome when we put them in, but the low light did kind of hurt your eyes after a little while.  (I'm going to mention this, though it should be a no brainer:  Don't ever stare directly at a black light.  It's REALLY bad for your eyes.)  So, we decided to add three of these.  They were great.  We attached them directly to the joists and ran extension cords to them. (We also put a screw in the joist at the end of the light where the cord connects so that they wouldn't accidentally get pulled off of the screws that were holding them up.)  At this point, the CFL bulbs were being controlled by the light switch and the tube lights had to have their extension cords plugged in.  But as we thought about it, we didn't really like the idea of having the bulbs on the light switch.  What if someone got hurt and we needed lights on quickly?  Or what if they just got tired of the black lights and wanted to turn on regular lights for awhile?  Plus, we were also hoping to make this a relatively permanent place and we didn't want to have to switch light bulbs all the time.  So, we decided to hang naked bulb sockets and plug them into extension cords as well.  (They were similar to this, though we didn't use this exact one.  We used what we had around the house.)

9 lights in all and the lighting was great!  Didn't hurt your eyes and everything looked awesome!

DECORATION:

I guess at this point, I should post a few pics of what the party looked like in the end.  I will address different  items along the way.
(Here you see part of the painted wall on the right,
a naked concrete wall straight ahead,
and part of the curtain to the left.)

Contrary to popular belief, not all things that are white are also UV reactive.  White fabric and white paper glow really well, but white paint does not, and only *some* white plastic does.  **enter flashlight**

Other strange things that glow under black light:  Tide liquid laundry detergent and Clorox 2.  I don't know how that will be helpful to you, but there you go.

The string art was one of my favorite decorations that we did!   Remember that this wall is concrete.  So, we couldn't just hammer in some nails.  We used our 3M hooks again.  (I dabbed over them in black paint so that they would blend in with the wall.)  FYI:  If you're using 3M hooks on a concrete wall, I really recommend that you let the hooks sit for AT LEAST 24 hours before hanging ANYTHING on them.  We learned that one the hard way.

I bought all of my yarn from Joann Fabrics & Crafts.  (You can sign up on their website for great coupons.  They also have a smartphone app.  FYI:  They let you use more than one coupon at a time.  I made out like a bandit!)  You can find the pink and green yarn here.  (It's Red Heart Super Saver yarn.  The colors are Pretty 'n Pink and Spring Green.  I also used White on the ceiling).  The orange is Deborah Norville Collection.  I can't find it on their site, but my Joann's had an end cap of neon yarn.  It was more expensive, but I used a coupon. : )

Since I'm talking about yarn . . . here's the ceiling.  This was another favorite feature of mine.  It gave the illusion of a ceiling, even though there isn't one.  My wonderful husband, with the help of daughter #2 nailed about a skillion small nails into the joists.  (You want them to be small, but have a head on them so it holds the yarn.)



This ceiling could have taken us DAYS to finish.  Tie the yarn, get down, move the step ladder.  Get up.  Wrap the yarn.  Get down.  Move the step ladder.  Get up.  Wrap the yarn . . . for EVERY SINGLE nail.  And that's just one color yarn.  Next start yarn color #2.  You get the idea.  But thankfully I have very rare moments of genius. : )  I found a 5 foot piece of 1" PVC pipe in the garage.  We ran the yarn through the pipe, then tied it to the first nail.  Then we were just able to reach the pipe up and it kind of acted as an extension arm to wrap the yarn around each nail.  No step stool necessary.  If only those moments of genius came more often : )

The white door is where you enter the basement.  Notice that it does not glow.  (Nor does white screen printing on clothing.  Just a 2 cent extra for you.)

(Splatter painted curtains.)

PAINT
You will QUICKLY realize that UV reactive paint is EXPENSIVE.  I hunted all over the internet and it stressed me out.  I wanted to splatter paint my black walls and curtains and I was NOT willing to spend a fortune.  Walmart carries neon acrylic paint that is UV reactive, but it cost $2 per bottle.  I wanted several colors and a few bottles of each.  I just wasn't willing to pay that.  Well, then I decided to take a peak at Joann's.  I didn't have much hope.  What are the chances that Joann's would be cheaper than Walmart??  Boy was I WRONG.  They had their own off-brand (Craft Essentials) of neon paint and it cost 59 CENTS EACH!  Score! I think I bought four each of 5 different colors (yellow, green, pink, blue, orange).  In the end I still had a small amount paint left over.

We had tons of fun splatter painting.  We used plastic spoons.  My kids loved it (My youngest is 6).  We just put a little paint in the bowl of the spoon and they launched it at the wall/curtain, catapult style.  It was a great way to keep it controlled so that the kids could enjoy and we didn't waste paint.

This is our other wall that we left in its natural concrete color.  Hand printing it was great fun for all.  It was actually really cool because the pink and orange hand prints looked like they were floating off of the wall, giving a kind of 3-D look. (We got that with the splatter paint somewhat, but not as much.)

We used these lava lamps, courtesy of my brother.  While they certainly aren't necessary, and aren't even black light items, I was REALLY glad that we had them.  First of all, who doesn't love to look at a lava lamp?  Second, it brightened the room, without taking away from the black light effect.  The fiber optic thingy was also something that we had on hand, but looked great!

Ummm . . . this is basically just an example of me getting carried away with a paint pen.  It was fun.  This is the paint pen that I used.  It's from Walmart, and cost maybe a buck or two.

ENTERTAINMENT:

Music Station
We had our CD player (and CDs) out with an auxiliary cord plugged in (so that all of the girls could access music from their own MP3 players, if they wanted to.)  I had a lot of fun with the subway art style and a marker : )  This is a dresser with a hutch on top.  I used neon poster board (69 cents each at Dollar Tree) and taped it to the inside of the shelves.  I LOVED the effect.  (BTW silly string was from Dollar Tree.  $1 each.  It did glow under the black light.  The girls certainly had fun with it but it REALLY made the basement STINK.)

Make-up Station
We used this make-up.  (We didn't order it from this site, but I can't remember where I got it.)  I looked ALL OVER for UV reactive make-up.  I did find a few things, but NONE of them had good reviews.  So, I decided to bite the bullet and go for the good stuff.  This is high quality stage makeup.  I had nine girls using it all evening (with q-tips) and they barely dented it.  It works REALLY well.  We also had neon nail polish.  You can buy that anywhere.  In fact, my girls already had it, so we didn't buy any more.

Neon Duck Tape
We bought this at Walmart, though you could get it anywhere as colored tape is all the rage right now.  NONE of the patterned tapes that we found glowed.  Of the neon colors, only the pink and orange glowed.  We used it for hopscotch and for wrapping around our hula hoops (which were a huge hit!)




Glow bowling!  (I got the ball at 5 Below.  It's one of those giant green tennis balls.)

This was actually the result of an experiment gone wrong.  I was trying to make UV reactive hair gel.  While each color (obviously) glows really well, when it dries you lose the effect.  Bummer.  So we filled soda bottles with it and used it for bowling.  (You can also see jars of it on the make-up table.)  I won't bore you with a how to on this one since it was such a waste of time & money, but you should know this:

You can use highlighter cores to create glowing water.  

Fun stuff.  Green and yellow highlighters work best.  (I considered making a fountain out of glow water.  Maybe I'll do that for another party!)  Take the core-ink-cartridge-thingy out of the highlighter (It's the fibrous cylinder inside the marker that is wrapped in plastic. (NOT the tip of the marker) For some highlighters you will actually have to break the marker. Others pull apart easily.)  Put a large bowl in the sink, then cut the ink cartridge open and run water over it to rinse all ink out of the fibers.  Voila!  You have glow water!

We TRIED using this method to create UV reactive bubbles.  I had this vision of a bubble machine filling my basement with awesome glowing bubbles.  Well, it worked . . . Kind of.  The bubbles didn't look as awesome as I had imagined.  Plus, everywhere that a bubble popped on my floor, it left a fluorescent stain.  I could only imagine:  Hours of bubbles + 9 tween girls = massive mess.  I decided to nix it.

Instead we had neon balloons all over the floor.  They were more fun for the girls and only cost 99 cents at Walmart.

Twister was another brain child of mine.  I had actually ruined this twin sheet testing different markers and hair spray.  (BTW . . . highlighter markers DO stain fabric.  Also, I tried neon pink and neon orange hair sprays (like, the kind you buy at Halloween time.)  Both glowed under black light.  Both stained fabric.)

For our twister game, I used the non-stained side and screen printed the circles on it (Yes, I have a personal screen printer).  Instead of using silk screen ink, I just used the neon acrylic paint that we used to splatter the walls.  A note about acrylic paint and fabric:  While acrylic paint DOES stain fabric, it also washes out quite a bit.  I say this because it's a big bummer when you screen an entire twister game onto a sheet and then wash it to get pencil marks out, thinking that the paint won't wash out, and you end up having to re-screen the entire thing.  It washes out enough that you can barely see it, but not enough to use the sheet as a normal white sheet.  Don't ask me how I know that ; )

For the Twister spinner, I just used our traditional Twister spinner.  I removed the spinner part.  Then I created the spinner design on the computer, printed it, and glued it onto the back of the traditional spinner.  I taped around the edges with scotch tape, and painted the circles with the appropriate colors.  Once they dried, I put the plastic spinner back on.  If you are interested, you can print the spinner here.  (It's 2 pages that need to be trimmed and meet in the middle)

DISHES:
The "eating table"

Because we were wanting to re-use our space, we decided that we preferred to buy plastic cups, plates, etc . .  Honestly, I was never impressed with any of the colored paper ones that I found, so that made it an easy decision.  (FYI:  Styrofoam does not glow under black light.)

On our eating table we have the following items:
Sand buckets (Dollar Tree $1/each)
Pink plastic plates (Dollar Tree $1/4 pack)
Blue plastic bowls (Dollar Tree $1/4 pack)
Blue plastic cups (Dollar Tree $1/4 pack)
Cheap white paper napkins (We had these on hand, but they're the ones that you buy a huge pack at Walmart for like $2)
Neon Straws (Walmart $1/pack)
Clear Neon Green forks/knives/spoons (Dollar Tree $1/mixed pack of 36)

(I know that the cups and bowls glow white, but they are actually blue in regular light)
(We used the sand buckets for chips and puppy chow.  FYI - Cheese puffs glow (kind of) under black light)


Food Table

Non-Food Items:
Purple Tray (The one that is front and center - it looks white under black light) (Dollar General $2 each)
Clear Green Serving Tray (Dollar Tree $1/each)
2 Large white bowls (Dollar Tree $1/each)
Pink cups (that are holding glow sticks) (Wal-mart 50 cents/4pack - Easter clearance)
Tall pink vases (Dollar Tree $1/each)
Yellowish/orange flowers (Dollar Tree $1/bunch)
Green pinwheel flowers (Dollar Tree $1/each)
Glow sticks (Dollar Tree $1/pack of 15)
Birthday candles (Walmart $1/pack of 24)
Neon paper for Accordion circles (Walmart I don't remember the price)
Slinky - on hand (though it was probably a dollar store find)
Deviled egg tray - on hand
Cupcake holder - on hand

Food Items:
Oh boy.  I could go on for a long time about food that glows.  When you research food that glows under black light, the #1 thing that you will find is that tonic water glows.

Problem:  Tonic water also tastes like crap.

I tried making jello with tonic water.  It definitely glowed.  It also tasted like nail polish remover.  If you want to call that food, go ahead.

Personally, I gave up on food that glows.  Because I found that any other food that did "glow" didn't glow very well.  

So my advice:  Choose food that is yummy.  

Choose serving dishes that glow.

If any of your serving dishes don't glow, make them glow using glow sticks.
(We put glow sticks in between our deviled eggs and it looked awesome!)

 . . . with the exception of
THE CAKE

This was the one food that I really wanted to glow, but I wasn't willing to sacrifice taste.  I was SO THRILLED when I saw my frosting under the black lights.  I couldn't have asked for it to turn out better.  And there was NO TONIC WATER involved :)

I modified my Grandma's heavenly frosting.  I will share the recipe.  Consider yourself blessed. : )

2 lb powdered sugar
2 cups shortening
1/2 cup milk
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon imitation butter
2 teaspoons almond extract
3 (100 mg) Vitamin B2 capsules

Imitation butter can be found with other extracts in the baking aisle.  I bought the food coloring as Walmart.  I ordered the vitamin B2 from Amazon. Yes, vitamin B2 glows under black light.  In fact any energy drinks (Red Bull, Monster) that say "includes B vitamins" will glow.  You can click here for directions to make glowing "Kryptonite" candy.  I didn't make it, but it would be awesome for a super hero party.  

(I recommend that you not use more than 3 B2 capsules in your frosting, otherwise you will get a slight bitter taste.  Don't ask how I know that.)

Directions:
Open Vitamin B2 capsules and pour powder in milk.  MIX WELL (I put it in a shaker and shook it for a while.)  Microwave until milk is HOT.

Combine powdered sugar, shortening salt, imitation butter, almond extract and hot milk/vitamin mixture in a Kitchenaid mixer.  Mix on high for 10 minutes.  Yes . . . 10 minutes.  You pretty much have to beat the crap out of it.

At this point, your frosting will be light yellow.  SO . . . it would be wise to plan for a frosting color that can be made from yellow.  (Yellow, green or orange would be wise.)  I chose lime green.

Add 20 drops of neon green food coloring.  Mix well.

(Side note:  you can leave out the vitamin B2 and food coloring and you will get a heavenly, bright white, almond flavored frosting that you could happily eat by the spoonful.  But it doesn't glow under black light.)

Frost and enjoy!!

PHOTOGRAPHY:

I wanted to take a minute to mention this topic.  Taking pictures under black light really isn't difficult, but you have to know what you're doing.

Rule #1:  NO FLASH.  If you don't turn your flash off, you will completely lose the glow that the black lights create.

Rule #2:  Slow your shutter speed.  I mean REALLY slow it down.  Thankfully my camera has a night time setting (If your camera has it, use it.  It might also be called a fireworks setting.)

Rule #3:  Use a tripod.  With my night time setting, some of my pictures (literally) took a minute to expose.  There is no way that you can hold your camera perfectly still for that long, so don't torture yourself.

Photographing people under black light is very difficult.  Especially when they are wiggly teen girls : )  But it's always fun to try.
You get the idea. : )

Well, I hope that this has been helpful to SOMEONE.  

I guess at the very least, I have recorded all of this so that I remember it all the next time I do this, right??

141 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am so glad you posted this! My soon to be 9 year old asked for a "Glow Party" this year as her sleepover! Thanks so much for sharing your ideas!!

alp2295 said...

I'm glad it could be helpful to someone! ; )

Susie_of_76 on instagram :) said...

what the!?! i thought for sure i would be the thousandth comment! what the heck, people are so lazy to read. anyway, omg, this post is a gold mine! i had a blast reading it and you made me laugh out loud. really. my girl is turning 13 next month & although i've been researching for MONTHS, i'm feeling the crunch of it all now. your ideas and descriptions of what, why and how are super helpful! i was surprised to see that a few ideas you had, i also have so it was nice to see my vision in fruition - through you. thanks! i flippin LOVEEEEEEE my flashlight & totally agree with you - you definitely need this in order to have a party like this. thank you and you should consider party planning. ;) have a good one! - Susie

Susie_of_76 on instagram :) said...

what the!?! i thought for sure i would be the thousandth comment! what the heck, people are so lazy to read. anyway, omg, this post is a gold mine! i had a blast reading it and you made me laugh out loud. really. my girl is turning 13 next month & although i've been researching for MONTHS, i'm feeling the crunch of it all now. your ideas and descriptions of what, why and how are super helpful! i was surprised to see that a few ideas you had, i also have so it was nice to see my vision in fruition - through you. thanks! i flippin LOVEEEEEEE my flashlight & totally agree with you - you definitely need this in order to have a party like this. thank you and you should consider party planning. ;) have a good one! - Susie

alp2295 said...

Thanks Susie! Yeah . . . I can't imagine that many people actually read the whole thing. : ) In their defense, I can hardly blame them. It's LONG! But, like I said . . . if it's what you're looking for it's great information. I'm so glad that it was helpful for you! Our party was so much fun!! The one trick with the flashlight is finding somewhere in a store that is semi-dark to use it. We would often stick things down between lower shelves so that they were in the shadows. Then you get a better idea of how well they glow. I hope you have an awesome party!

Anonymous said...

I read it. Loved it and thank you!

Anonymous said...

Amazing!! I'm planning a Glow Party for my sons 12th birthday, and you just saved me so much time and $$! Thanks for all of the tips and for posting your mistakes, too (I thought white paint would automatically glow...) . Amazing partyy!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for writing this all out. My daughter wants a glow party for her 11th birthday. This was the best article I found on what to do and not to do and where to find things. Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for writing this all out. My daughter wants a glow party for her 11th birthday. This was the best article I found on what to do and not to do and where to find things. Thank you!

Anonymous said...

This is by far the most detailed info I have found. All the tips are great and very helpfull. Planning a party for my daughters sweet 16. Sooooo glad I found this. I was going crazy!!!!!!

DINK said...

I agree with everyone else this has been the most helpful in my planning! as a matter of fact it is bookmarked, pinned and is the core of my daughters party :) after looking at other ideas I always find myself right back here! Thank you SOOOOOO much you are a God sent!!!

DINK said...

I agree with everyone else this has been the most helpful in my planning! as a matter of fact it is bookmarked, pinned and is the core of my daughters party :) after looking at other ideas I always find myself right back here! Thank you SOOOOOO much you are a God sent!!!

Anonymous said...

i'm having a black light party for my sweet 16, and i will totally be using a bunch of these ideas! i'll be having a splatter paint cake though. frost it black and go nuts with neon frosting! and if u out a glow stick in a jar of water, u get the same effect as the highlighter water trick. Happy glowing!

Anonymous said...

this is such an awesome idea!!! I have never even heard of a glow party and you definitly went all out! :) looks like it was fun!

Anonymous said...

Just want to leave a post to say, "THANK YOU!!!" I appreciate you taking the time to document and share your useful glow in the dark info. It has been SO helpful as I plan my daughter's glow in the dark party.

Anonymous said...

Thank you, thank you, thank you! So funny, so informative, and what a blessing! 2014 VBS will have a "Glow Room" because of you!! I love your ideas plus COUPONS. Vacation Bible School always has a tight budget but I think we'll be able to swing it now. Oh ... did I say THANK YOU!! God Bless!

Anonymous said...

A GIANT thank you!!!!!!!

Sari said...

My younger sister and I are planning a combined 18th/21st Neon Party and your tips are greatly appreciated!!! Thankyou!

Rachael McCall said...

I just read your blog post to get REAL life experience in preparation for my daughter's Sweet 16 Glow Party. We are doing it at a rental hall so I can't do everything but this gives me great ideas. It is good to see that some of the ideas I had come up with prior to reading your blog were actually doable. Thanks for posting!!

Unknown said...

Omg!! Thank you for this post!!! Im planning my daughters birthday party and I am going crazy trying to find what works. My favorite idea is the flashlight. Thank you!

Blacklight.com said...

Great job!

Unknown said...

Awesome job! I was curious, was there a specific yarn that you used? Or is that what you used your flashlight for??

alp2295 said...

Leslie - The yarn was Red Heart Super Saver yarn. The colors are Pretty 'n Pink, Spring Green, and white. I also used neon orange from the Deborah Norville Collection at Joann's (I did use the flashlight for this. Some of their neon colors glowed, others did not.)

Anonymous said...

You are seriously awesome. Im allowing my 13 yr old daughter to throw a mid-summer rave party and funds are not the greatest. You have given me the excitement about the party that I was lacking. Thanks!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for taking the time to put this all together. I'm planning a glow party for my daughter's 10th birthday and this is fantastic advice!

Anonymous said...

Thanks a bunch this has been very informative, as my soon to be 11yr. old daughter has decided on a glow theme for her birthday this year. We are however doing a neon glow swim/sleepover party, so we have a huge outdoor area to cover. Wasn't sure I could do it on my budget...until today. Greatly appreciate all the tips ;) Steph

Unknown said...

Thank you so much for sharing! My soon to be 11yr old daughter has chosen a neon glow theme for her birthday next month, and this has been such a huge help. We are however having an outdoor, swimming party...and until today thought there was no possible way to really pull this off on a decent budget. ;)

Kendra@My Insanity said...

Wow! So much great information! As a blogger, I know how much work it is to write up a post like this! Thank you for saving the rest of us so much time and trial and error!

alison said...

this will help me so much in planning out a party for my son. thank you!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for posting this its wonderfully and I will be using some of your ideas for my Halloween party this year. Once again thanks for all of your hard work.

Anonymous said...

I wanted to join in on saying "Thank you" for posting all these helpful hints! My daughter wants a Neon Glow party for her 13th bday, and we are going to transform our garage. So glad to have found your information.

Shonda Fernandez said...

I am so glad i found your "not a blog" Jamie wants her 11th birthday to be a glow party and like you I found a glow party and a black light party to be very different things. Your insight has been so very helpful.

Anonymous said...

Love this post!!! We've had annual glow-in-the-dark Halloween parties for several years and each year have the pressure to try something to one up the previous one. Lots of lessons learned! Lots of frustration with food recipes too but never tried B2...I'm going to try your frosting this year :) Thanks!

Anonymous said...

Thanks so much for your ideas. We are having a glow party tomorrow night for our 11 and 13 year old girls. We painted our entire basement, yes the floors too!! I agree with you about food - no glow products that will also ensure that the food edible. We found neon yarn at Michael's that was amazing and we did not have to do anything but wrap it around and string it across. We are very excited about the party. Thanks again for all your great tips.

Anonymous said...

Awesome tips! Wish I had found this 2 months ago! My daughter just had a glow party last month and I really could have used some of these tips!
A tip for you... Walmart and hobby lobby have neon tempura paints and they glow fantastically, since they are finger paints they are super easy clean up (wet paper towels) and non toxic so we used them for face paints. Much cheaper than anything else and no worries when someone spilled :)

Anonymous said...

Awesome post! Makes me want to get one of my kids to want a glow party, if I could figure out where to host it, ha!

Anonymous said...

You are a genius! Thank you for your time and posting this! My daughter wants a blacklight party and I wasn't sure where to start. You have been so helpful. Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for all the time you put into writing this. I jotted all of your ideas and look forward to using them. It's for my daughter and her friend who are also turning 13... seems to be a popular theme at this age.

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much! Love all the detail you went in to! You answered tons of questions I had, saved me soooo much time - this is soooooo bookmarked! :)

Anonymous said...

thank you for taking the time and giving such great detail! Hugely helpful!! Can't wait to try may of these! And you crack me up!

Anonymous said...

This was THE BEST post about Glow In The Dark Parties I've seen so far! Thanks for all the GREAT info! : ))))

JoAnn : )

Lee Hernandez said...

WOW! This is great! FYI- nature nerds know that scorpions glow in the dark. Our family does desert camping. My son, age 40, brings a blacklight flashlight just for this reason. It is super creepy to walk in the desert at night and see a glowing scorpion! Fun stuff!

Unknown said...

FABALAS info!! Thanks so much for the ideas!! Preparing for my daughter's 10th birthday glow party!!

Cupcake Gal Pal said...

First, thank you so much for all the info!! It's getting to be a life saver for my daughters sweet 16 Neon Rave party :)

I did have a question though, when you got the paint pen to do the fridge, what color did you get, and where did you find it? In the paint department or in the arts and crafts department? Thanks so much again for all the tips!!!!

Cupcake Gal Pal said...

Great tips! Thank you!! I would love to know what color paint pen you used, as well as if it's in the paint section or if it's in the arts and crafts section? All these things will come in handy with my daughters sweet sixteen party, neon rave party. What a big preparation for one of these partyies!!! So, thanks again!!!

alp2295 said...

@Cupcake Gal Pal - I got in at Walmart in the craft aisle. It's neon green.

Anonymous said...

Great ideas and thank you! I definitely ordered that UV flashlight!!

Anonymous said...

Great ideas! Quick question... how many cup cakes will the frosting cover? I need to make 4 dozen and want to make sure I make enough.

alp2295 said...

Hmmm . . . I would think that it would be enough for 48 cupcakes, but I can't say for sure. I did 24 and I know that I had quite a bit left over.

Anonymous said...

does anyone know how long to glow will last in the cupcakes? I wanted to make the cupcakes the day before the party just wanted to make sure they will glow for the party.

alp2295 said...

I made my cupcakes the day before also.

Anonymous said...

ok im throwing this kind of a party and i was wondering if the stuff you bought was just in store because i cant find the paint you used.

alp2295 said...

Yes, it was all in store.

Beth said...

Thank you! Was the craft essentials paint actually marked "neon" blue for example or was it just the neon colors you picked?

alp2295 said...

Unfortunately, I don't remember :( In our store the neons were all grouped together, separate from the other colors. If you're unsure, I recommend using a blacklight flashlight to test the colors.

Anonymous said...

THANK YOU for taking the time to share all of this!!!! So glad I found this post!!! :)

Jill said...

THANK YOU for posting all of this great information. We just started to plan a glow party and found this post. Awesome ideas!

Unknown said...

Hi, Thank you for the posting, I have a question, for invitations do you have some ideas?

Unknown said...

Thanks so much you pointed me in the right direction..

Anonymous said...

Thank you soo much for posting this great info. You have saved this mom a ton of time! You are like my party mom Jedi!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Just what we needed thank you! And I already have the black light flashlight, bought it at walmart in the flashlight section!

alp2295 said...

Rosa Maria - Unfortunately I don't. We put so much work into the party that I decided to take the easy route with invitations. I just sent Evites!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for taking the time to write this out. VERY HELPFUL.

Unknown said...

Could you tell me how you accomplished the yarn art wall?

alp2295 said...

Joy C - The description is in the post. We used the same Command Hooks that we used for hanging the curtains. You can put them in any pattern that you want to achieve the design that you want. In this case, the hooks are kind of in a zig-zag pattern. We just wrapped the string around the hooks.

TXMess said...

Thank you for taking the time to share your black light party experience! We're planning a black light party for our daughter's 11th birthday this month and you have saved me SO MUCH TIME researching this! Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Anonymous said...

Wow! such an amazing review of just.. everything! Thank you so much!

Anonymous said...

WOW! Thank you. I am giving my daughter and God-daughter a 13 party in Oct,

Tabitha said...

Thank goodness I found your blog! I'm trying to put the same type of party together for my going to be 13 year old daughter....this Saturday. You made my life so much easier. Our finished basement is huge and I'm just not getting the big glow that I want. I have two 48" black light fixtures. I'm thinking now that I need more. I love that you took so much time to share this and with such great detail. THANK YOU!

alp2295 said...

Hi Tabitha! (Btw . . . I'm so excited that Blogger finally has a "reply" feature so that I can now reply to individual comments!)

Yes, plenty of black lights is a must. I'm so glad that we started well in advance, otherwise we would have been very disappointed in party night. I hope that yours is awesome!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for posting this. Planning a party for our youth and wanted to know what worked. Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Even years after your party your advise is being sough out - thanks for the ideas and specifics!!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for all of the tips!! I am planning a Blacklight Sweet 16 party for my daughter and this post was super helpful!

Suman said...

Great resource for my blacklight party. Thank you so much.
Suman

Anonymous said...

Oh my goodness, thank you, thank you, thank you for your thorough and realistic advice! Your info is going to be soo helpful in saving money but keeping the look successful!!

Anonymous said...

Thank you soooo much for all your information. I'm hosting a Black Lite Party for my daughters' 38th Birthday, this weekend!!! Hopefully, my daughter & all the adults guests will have as much fun as your young kids did! You did a great job and thank you again for sharing all the do's and DON'TS!

Unknown said...

Great post and very helpful! Thank you.

Nichole said...

Thank you thank you thank you!! You've just saved me HOURS of time!!! I hope to pay it forward as this is so helpful and kind of you to take the time to share!

Anonymous said...

Awesome!!! I needed this advice so bad. thank you very much for taking time and effort to share this. I can't wait to try this for my daughters.

Unknown said...

I Truly enjoyed and appreciate reading the WHOLE Blog. That being said, I personally didn't find it too long being that is was so informative. Im having my daughter's 10th bday paryt this coming week and a lot of your suggestions have totally saved me time!! thank you and keep up the great work!!

Anonymous said...

Loved your post! now my challenge is going to be to find similar stores in Holland selling all these items. But at least now I know what to look for! Thank you so much

Anonymous said...

i'm planning my own party as my mom is gone to meet family and my dad is absolute crap at this stuff so this was immensely help full since I've been told to budget as much as possible but i also wanted a really cool and unexpected party because this is very special to me. I wanted to say thank you and that if you have any other nitty gritty details that you didn't include in the post i would love to know because i want to make sure that this party is a success. again thank you for all this great information.

ErthMother said...

Bless you for sharing this info. I do not like party planning at all especially with a theme. You are going to help me make this so memorable for me daughter. Thank you so much!!! Good affordable fun. Perfect.

ErthMother said...

Thank you so much for sharing this info and in the detail that I need. You are going to help me make this the best party ever for my daughter. Her first sleepover and its a Glow Party...I'm excited now too since I have this info to guide me. Bless you.

Melanie said...

Thanks so much for sharing all this info! My daughter is turning 13 in a couple months and has asked for a glow dance party. This will definitely make my work much easier, especially starting with my own small blacklight flashlight. :)
Thanks again!

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing! My daughter wants her Sweet 16 party to be a GLOW PARTY. I have tagged a ton of websites, but not as detailed as yours. Thanks for sharing. I have ordered my black light and am off to the dollar tree and Wal-Mart tomorrow!!!

Thanks again!!!

Elhi said...

THANK YOU! You made my year with this! And THANK YOU for the all details and links and for reading my mind and answering every question that popped into it!

Anonymous said...

I second everything that everyone else has said before! And its obviously still very helpful even years later. Your opener and explanation hit the nail on the head. I have been searching and looking high and low and your info is priceless. Thank you so much for taking the time to share all of it with us!!

Unknown said...

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you! You have saved me so much time. I was so confused. You answered all of me questions. Thank you.

Ema1 said...

I used this blog and this blog only to create the most amazing Blacklight set for our Kid Ministry for the month of March! We are GLOWING God's Love for Easter 2016. You can not possibly know how much this site enabled us to pull this off with ease and on basically $0 budget. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!!!!! You inspired an entire world wide group of people who use the Orange Curriculum for elementary church ministries. You are amazing!

Anonymous said...

Its 2016 and this blog is still coming in handy!! Thanks for all the great ideas! I cant wait to give them a try..i can only hope my party comes out as great as yours did. Wish me luck!

Unknown said...

Thank you so much!! I have been searching for all the information you have provided for my daughter's 13th birthday party in April 2016. Now I can finally exhale, make my shopping list knowing what items I need to purchase and where to purchase them from. Thanks again. .

Melissa Mitchell-Massengale said...

Thank You Thank You Thank You for allllllllll this GREAT info!!!! Made my life so much easier!!! I LOVE that you gave specifics and details! Not many do that and it was a life saver!! Thanks Again!!

Nichole said...

Thank you so much for the ideas! When I started reading I was like hey same thing I'm doing, PERFECT!! I had no clue what to do with the ceiling...GENIUS!!! I was going to go out and buy black fabric to block off the areas that I didn't want the kids in but black tables clothes is soooo much cheaper! I love how your mind works!! ;) Now I can't wait to go shopping! Thank you for saving me so much money!! The girls are going to have a blast!

Unknown said...

Hi there! Thank you very much, this is excellent! Just wondering if you have any tips to create the string art on the wall? It is wonderful and is similar to something I'd like to make. Thanks :)

alp2295 said...

Emma - Why don't you just email me your string art questions. That will be easier than trying to carry on a conversation in the comments. My email address is alp2295@gmail.com. Thanks.

Unknown said...

Excellent info! Thank you for all the work you put into this!

Just a couple tips to anyone reading:

1) I had the same idea with the flashlight, but I checked brick-and-mortar stores first. To save on wait time, you can just pick up a blacklight flashlight from your local Wal-Mart, or if you don't have a Wal-Mart around, you may even be able to find one in the camping gear section of another local store. I've also seen them at some pet stores, meant for finding pet urine stains. I found mine at Wal-Mart for about $10, batteries included and no shipping fee, so technically cheaper than Amazon. I was able to buy it, pop the batteries in, and start walking around Wally world in search of UV reactive things within minutes. Super handy. This is the one I bought: http://www.walmart.com/ip/Rayovac-VBUV-B-Rayovac-Value-Bright-9-LED-UV-Flashlight/22086108

2) There are actually specific paints made for painting concrete- they have small particles in them to help fill the pores in the concrete. Note, however, that because of the extra particles, the paint is heavier and your arm will get tired quicker than with normal paint. In the end, though, I personally would prefer the weight of concrete paint over the frustration of regular paint on concrete.

Hope this helps someone! Have a great day everyone!!

Shannon said...

Thank you so much for sharing such specific information! Your post was very helpful! Your party was amazing!

SticKey NiKKi said...

You are awesome! My son will love this for his birthday. Also, you mentioned at the top of your blog that you are a foster mom in training, if you are, you are even more amazing. I work with kids and many of them are in foster care or are transitioning back to bio parents or adoption families. People who foster kids are gifts from God and change kids lives forever, even if you have them for a short time!

Anonymous said...

Omg.. All I can say is thank you! My daughter's 16th is next month and I've been doing alot of research and you just saved me a ton of time.

Unknown said...

I can say that your blog helped me out alot. I have been going out of my mind trying to plan my daughter's sweet 16. I have bought balloons, black lights, glow sticks of plenty, glow in the dark plates, cups and silverware. I am a pinterest freak when it came to this party. I just happen to come across your blog. I think I will take your idea and also blog about my daughter's party as well. Thank you again, you have been a huge help. Julie

Jaya said...

I feel I hit the jackpot when I came across this blog! THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I cannot tell you how much I appreciate your blog!!

Dawn said...

Thank you so much for putting your time into writing all this out plus the links to products. I read the whole thing and I will be going back to take notes!

Anonymous said...

Impressive! You're so generous to share your amazing "finds" and cleverness! I'm not even planning a glow-in-the-dark party (YET!), I was just asked to make a glow-in-the-dark cake and stumbled upon your blog (Vitamin B2...fascinating)! Years later your blog is helping many glow-in-the dark party planners!! Thank you! :)



Unknown said...

Thank you SO much for all your helpful comments wish I had known about buying the flashlight first, I've had packages coming and going back for returns for weeks. I found black craft paper online to wrap the walls in my basement but I'm wondering aside from twister and balloons, did you put anything else on the floor as decoration? I'm thinking of using neon duct tape for directional purposes. I would like to know if you had any suggestions about face/body painting or games to play? My party is less than 2 weeks so far I have white canvases (from Michaels) with paint (from JoAnns), so the girls can paint. I will have a tic tac toe floor area in neon duct tape, x's and o's made from glow sticks, musical chairs but instead hula hoops on the floor and you have to have a body part in the hoop, nail painting station with teenage niece and teenage daughter will be the DJ. I'm wrapping our columns in balloons so the kids don't bump into them and we have white plastic picnic table that folds into two benches that glows... other than that do you know how to make chairs glow other than buying chair covers? Trying to avoid that price. Any help you can provide will greatly be appreciated as if this post didn't help enough... you're the BEST! And I'm loving that ceiling decoration I'll see if I can pull that off I may just try to spell her name in the ceiling only 6 letters. Thank you thank you thank you

Anonymous said...

Hello,

I love all the different concepts, but I'm having a hard time understanding how do the yarn ceiling.

Please Help! :)

Unknown said...

Hi! Thank you SO much for posting this. You did a fantastic job. I have a question about the cupcakes? Do you think I could ice them ahead of time and freeze them? I've frozen iced cake before but never with glow in the dark icing. Thank you for your time.

Unknown said...

I just ran into this doing research to help with my nieces Sweet 16. Thanks!! Great info and you're hilarious btw.

aayushi said...

Hi,

I am so glad and thankful that you took some time to put everything together. It's great for people who are planning to throw a black-light party. Best thing I loved, you shared the places where we could get the party materials from at affordable prices .. KUDOS!! It's awesomeee :)


MommyAndTeacher said...

Thank you sooooo much! I really want to throw a glow in the dark party but leery because I want to be able to take pictures. I appreciate all of the information, especially the photography section!

Anonymous said...

Well, I'm the first to say THANK YOU in 2017! This blog is a tremendous help. I'm putting this party together in just 2 days!! But mine is a coed laser party. Many of these ideas work for me also. You're a lifesaver!

LarRissa said...

Thank you so much! I just kept reading and taking notes and hadn't realized I was almost done! Thank you for all the ideas! Wonderful post!

Simply Done Together said...

2017 and your tips are still being used! Thank you for your hard work in making our planning that much easier! Planning my daughters after prom and all your info is going to be put to good use! Thank you!

Anonymous said...

Thank you so much! Your information is invaluable. Please keep blogging, you are the best!

Kylie said...

This post was extremely helpful! Thank you SO much for taking the time to post and document all that you did. I am much more confident in hosting a glow in the dark party now!

Anonymous said...

You have just literally saved my life...not to mention the mom of the year award I'm getting ♡ the hubby will ban me from Pinterest again but it's worth it ;)

Tonja said...

This is the absolute best resource I've found. Thank you so much.

For the Love of Art said...

Thanks so much for helpful hints, especially the black light flashlight! OMG, it will save me so much time! I was already getting frustrated trying to put this together but you have saved me so much time and trouble!! Thanks!!!

Cindy deRosier said...

I'm the Editor of Fun Family Crafts and wanted to let you know that we have featured your amazing black light party! You can see it here:

https://funfamilycrafts.com/black-light-party/

If you have other kid-friendly craft or party ideas, we'd love for you to submit them. Thanks for sharing your awesome idea!

Anonymous said...

Thank you Sooo much for this post!! I am planning my daughters 12th birthday & all of your ideas are great! I wish more bloggers were as detailed as you. I love that you even posted your mistakes & where you bought all your stuff!! So sweet of you to take your time & share your party with us! You are a blessing!

Chad and Kayla said...

This is amazing! Thank you so much for all the fantastic information. My daughter is so excited, she says it's going to be the best party ever!

Anonymous said...

If I am using cardboard for a maze, do I have to paint the cardboard in order for the black light to work?

alp2295 said...

@Nani - If you are wanting the cardboard to glow, you will need to paint it neon. If you are just wanting it to be dark, then you can leave it as is. Though you might like to paint it black. That would create more contrast for anything that does glow.

Michelle D in OH said...

So cool to see we're all still enjoying and benefiting from your post years later!! I plan to use your frosting recipe for my daughter's Halloween party this Friday. Thank you SOOOOOOOOOO much for putting all of this wonderful information together...you are my new hero!!!!!

Anonymous said...

You are a freaking genius!!! Very grateful to you and this magnificent post you left us, it took away a lot of guess work. Thanks

Anonymous said...

THANKS SO MUCH����My youngest will be 16 and wants to have a glow party.. This is gonna be so helpful.. I'm all about saving money��

Unknown said...

I just planned my daughters whole 13th bday using your blog. Thanks for sharing.

Unknown said...

i am planning a glow party for my son who is turning 10. im sad that my space is so small but i have some new awesome ideas because of your post!!! thanks so much!! i think im more excited than he is lol

Tony said...

Thank you so much for sharing such a gold mine of information! I started my research 2 weeks ago and came to similar conclusions (like getting a small UV torch first thing), I wish I had seen this earlier ^^. Tons of great ideas like the PVC tube trick, this will save me so much time, THANKS AGAIN! :)

mel4895 said...

You are such a life saver with your wealth of information!!! You have saved me and many others so much time. Many of your shortcuts and tricks I would have never figured out. Again, thank you so much�� You are my hero❤️❤️❤️������

Beth Meade, Cape Town - South Africa said...

Thank you for the awesome tips! I planned my son's 13 birthday party using your guidelines ��

Ruth said...

I have searched for this information for several years on Pinterest posts and gotten only minimal results until now. What an awesome, informative rundown of a truly inspiring party success!! This one will be well remembered by your family and guests. Thanks so much for sharing!!

Jamie said...

Great post with awesome ideas! Thanks for the icing recipe too!

renadakay said...

I only wish you would have taken pics of the iteams not glowing so we could have a better idea of what to look for at the stores. I'm planning a glow party for my son's 6ty birthday next month. I followed most of your advice without know it. Lol. I carry a black light in my purse! I have found hobby lobby with coupon is a great place to get stuff they have glow party decor, plates etc.

Anonymous said...

Wonderful post and a wealth of information. Thank you so very much. I hope my daughter's 13th party turns out as great as yours did. :)

Zentz Family said...

It’s now 2021 and your post is STILL fascinating moms of girls throwing parties! THANK YOU SO MUCH for all the great details, tips & asides! I’m hosting a 10yo glow birthday sleepover in a few weeks & I need all the expert advice I can find. If all goes well, the next younger sis wants the SAME party (yes please!) Your black light flashlight tip is money (literally) and your vitB icing is to die for (every other Pinterest mom is going to be dipping their cupcakes in nasty tonic jello for hours - not THIS mom!) Thank you for taking tons of the experimentation but non of the fun out of my planning. What a gift.

Karatecook said...

We just had a glow Sweet 16 for our daughter. It was great! Bowling, ring toss and giant jenga were favorites. Dance party was fun too. We were in a karate school.

Anonymous said...

Thank you for posting! The glow bowling was a great idea. We just put glow sticks in water bottles measure I didn’t have time to take a part highlighters. I also put the glow sticks under the plates thanks to your idea helped them to see the treats in the dark!

Anonymous said...

I have been walking around with this uv flashlight for a little over a month. At first, the girls thought I was crazy. Now, they see the genius of it. I have gotten a lot of stares in the stores though. I am super excited to try your frosting recipe. Thanks for all the great tips and advise.

Anonymous said...

This was a great post and helped me with a bunch of finishing touches. Thank you! I just did this for my sons 13th with 14 boys (yikes). I actually bought each kid a small black light flashlight as their take home and carried one in my purse for the weeks leading up to test things in stores. I think I had as much fun doing this as they did at the party. My cake and a lot of the foods were glow in the dark. I used paper bags and dollar store black table cloths to black out the rooms we used. Glow in the dark yarn make a “laser beam” walkway down the hallway leading to the main room. Used neon paper to make a scavenger hunt in the backyard - could only find the items with their BL flashlights. My biggest investment was in neon/glow in the dark balls and some blacklights - ping pong, golf, mini basketballs, dodgeballs (spray painted them), and then lit up the front yard with black lights as well. They played all those things and then flashlight tag. One of the kids told me it was the best party they’ve ever been to so I think it worked out!! Thanks for writing all this.

Anonymous said...

I am SO happy I found this post!! Thank you for sharing!!!